Half-Assed Homemaker

To be more articulate, I have gathered, I need to concentrate on what I don't say. More specifically, I want to study the delta between my someone's impression of something like a series of events, a place, a movie, a band, art; and my description of it. To do this, I should ask.

Hopefully, this will help me indentify the types of details I am unclear about and also help me become more intimate with the minds of my friends and associates.